Are you still haunted by a breakup, betrayal, or a mistake that changed everything?

Clear the root cause so you can get on with living your best life in the next 30 days.

Hey you.  I see you.  You’ve been through something painful.

A breakup, betrayal, divorce, or a relationship mistake that changed everything. 

You grieved. You survived.  You’ve moved on...Or at least you’re trying to…

So why are you still struggling to enjoy your life? 

Does any of this sound like you?

  • You can’t stop thinking about what happened

    it loops in your mind like a broken record.

  • Certain things still set you off, and you spiral into anger, shame, or regret.

  • You feel tense all the time, and you bury yourself in work, Netflix, or a few drinks just to avoid thinking about it. 

  • You’ve tried therapy or talking to someone about itbut you’re so SICK of talking about it — and you’re not seeing any real improvement…

  • You still wake up at night, replaying conversations, and you’ve lost confidence and trust in your ability to ever find another loving, trusting relationship.

  • You feel guilty all the time about the pain your mistake caused your family.

  • You beat yourself up for not seeing the signs.

  • You look at yourself differently. You feel like a failure.

If any of that sounds like you, I want you to know that you’re not alone. 

I’ve worked with countless guys, just like you, who did everything they knew to move on with their lives but still felt stuck…

Within 30 days of going through my revolutionary Crush It Method, my clients had a 180-degree perspective shift:

No longer replaying the same story over and over in their head.

Feeling calm and steady instead of tense and on edge.

Trusting themselves and their decisions again.

Stopping the constant overthinking.

Enjoying relationships without fear, suspicion, or old baggage getting in the way.

Having more energy for work, hobbies, and life.

Feeling confident, grounded, and at peace with themselves.

Why what you’ve tried so far hasn’t worked:

Most guys have been conditioned to deal with the emotional fallout of  a relationship breakdown or life challenge in one of two ways:

You either push it down, telling yourself to “Get over it” (but the pain is still there under the surface).

Or

You’ve been talking it out over and over - with your therapist and your friends (but that just keeps the same story alive).

You’ve possibly even been reading the self-help books (in secret, I know) and listening to the podcasts but nothing is changing long term.

These methods are failing you, not because there is anything wrong with you, but because these methods fail to deal with the REAL problem…

The real problem is not the event - the breakup, the betrayal or the life-altering mistake the real problem is the false belief that was formed in the moment the event happened.

And that false belief has taken root in your psyche and your nervous system, and is literally ‘running the show’...

And until that belief is uprooted, and replaced with the truth, you will always  struggle to move forward.

You're also more likely to experience a repeat of the destructive patterns that led to the relationship breakdown in the first place.

Think of it like this: 

It’s like having a computer virus hidden deep in the system. You can change the wallpaper, tidy up your files, and install new apps but the virus is still there, quietly corrupting everything you try to do. 

Until you remove it completely and install clean code, the problems will keep coming back.

The only way to truly let go is to break the beliefs

that were born in the moment it all began.

That’s exactly what The Crush It Method helps you do.

The Crush It Method is so effective because it completely cleans up your ‘hard drive’ and installs a clean code:

Crush It Method identifies the exact belief formed in the moment of the breakup, betrayal, or mistake.


It challenges that belief and replaces it with what’s actually true.
Once that shift happens, the emotional charge around the event disappears.

This means you can immediately start making choices from a healthy place  and the changes stick because the root cause/false belief  is gone.

That’s when peace, power, and emotional freedom come back online.

Not only that but it helps you see the lesson that the painful event brought. I call that extracting the gold, even a painful event can bring us gifts we never knew we needed. That is what causes you to move on more confident and powerful than you were before the event! (Don't worry, I didn't see how this was possible at first either, but I am now actually grateful for a betrayal I went through!)

Let Me Introduce Myself

Hi, I’m Dana, Expert Coach and the creator of The Crush It Method.

For years, I helped people shift their lives — in business, in relationships, and within themselves.

But when my own life cracked open...
A betrayal. A moment I didn’t see coming...

Everything I thought I’d moved on from came roaring back.

I had all the tools. I knew how to “cope.”
But suddenly, I was second-guessing everything:
My worth. My power. My path forward.

That old voice came rushing in:

“Who do you think you are?”
“Maybe you’re not enough.”
“You should’ve seen it coming.”

And I realized… none of the techniques I had were going deep enough.

I didn’t need another mindset trick.
I didn’t need to talk about it one more time.

I needed to break the belief system that moment had created.

That’s when The Crush It Method was born.

Not from theory — but from real, lived transformation. First for me.

Now for the hundreds of clients I’ve helped do the same.

IT WORKS — Because It’s Rooted in Truth.

What makes this method so transformational?
Why does it actually
stick — when nothing else has?

One word: Truth.

Not the story you created in a moment of pain.
Not the belief you’ve been carrying since everything fell apart.

But the deeper truth that’s always been there — buried underneath the shame, fear, and “not enough” narrative.

That’s the power of the Crush It Method.

We don’t just talk through what happened.
We go back to the moment the belief was formed —
and rewrite it based on what’s actually true.

You’ll start to see how one moment shaped how you see yourself…
And you’ll uncover all the evidence that proves it was never the whole story.

Think about it:

That one betrayal made you believe you couldn’t trust anyone — even yourself.

That one breakup made you feel like you’re not lovable.

That one loss made you think you’re not safe.

That one mistake made you doubt your intelligence.

That one failure convinced you you’d never get it right.

But is that the truth?

Or is it just what you made it mean in a moment of pain?

When we break that belief at the root — and replace it with what’s real: everything changes

You feel calm again
You trust yourself again
You take action from clarity, not fear
You stop attracting the same pain on repeat

That’s what emotional freedom really is:
Not numbing. Not coping.
But living from the truth of
who you actually are.

"When you believe your thoughts, you suffer. When you question them, you don’t." — Byron Katie

And that’s exactly what The Crush It Method helps you do.

Here’s How You Finally Break the Pattern — For Good.

I’ve distilled The Crush It Method into a simple, step-by-step process

I personally guide clients through during the 30-Day VIP Reset.

It’s the exact method I use to help people go from emotionally stuck

to truly free — by getting to the core, fast.

Step 1: 👀 Spot the hidden belief that’s been running the show — so you can stop repeating the same painful patterns in love, success, or self-worth.

Step 2: ⛓️‍💥 Break the emotional loop — the one keeping you stuck in shame, self-doubt, or “almost there” mode.

Step 3:Reframe it fast — so it fuels your confidence instead of sabotaging it. This is where magic happens. Once you see with a new perspective, you cannot go back to the old stories.

Step 4: 🔓 Lock it in — Here is where we clean up any lingering old thought patterns so they will stay out!

🌀 This is where the cycle ends.

Why This Matters:

I believe that when we heal the emotional patterns keeping us small, we stop passing that pain down — and start showing up in our lives fully, unapologetically, and on purpose.

You didn’t come here to keep carrying the weight of your past.
You came to grow through it.


To live boldly.
To love deeply.
To lead with truth.

So if you’re still reading this, you have a decision to make:

Option #1: Do Nothing

Keep doing what you’ve been doing — and stay exactly where you are.
Still feeling stuck in a loop.
Still second-guessing yourself.
Still carrying the old story like it’s part of your identity.

If you’re okay with that… I trust your timing.

But if you’re ready for real change…

Option #2: Go It Alone

You can try to do this on your own.
Read the books. Journal. Listen to podcasts.
Maybe even dive into deeper mindset work or explore a self-guided approach inspired by methods like The Work.

And sure — it might help over time.

But doing it alone often means moving slower, staying stuck in your head, or circling the same old questions without getting real resolution.

Because let’s be honest: when you're inside the pattern, it's hard to see the pattern — let alone break it.

Option #3: Be Guided By a Proven Method

This is where The Crush It Method VIP 30 Day Reset comes in.

This isn’t talk therapy.
This is deep emotional work — guided in a safe, step-by-step process — that gets results fast.

You’ll have private sessions, integration space, and tools to keep the shift alive long after our time together.

You don’t need to “figure it all out.”
You just need to show up.
And let the transformation begin.

👉 Are you ready to stop letting your past run the show — and finally feel free to move forward?

Let’s Crush It.


The most effective tool I’ve found for creating fast, lasting internal shifts — both for my clients and myself.

🫵 This is for you if:

  • You’re done letting guilt, shame, or self-doubt run the show

  • You want to let go — for real — not just “process it” again

  • You’re tired of pretending it’s fine when it’s not

  • You want to reclaim your energy, your clarity, and confidence

  • You’re ready to stop dragging the past into every room you walk into

💔 This Is Especially for You If:

  • You’ve been trying to let it go, but it keeps creeping back

  • A betrayal, divorce, or loss knocked the wind out of you — and you're still carrying it

  • You’re holding guilt from a mistake that changed everything

  • Childhood pain or trauma still colors the way you see yourself

  • Part of you feels like you deserve to carry this — but deep down, you want to be released

  • It’s keeping you afraid to trust, afraid to take a risk, afraid to open your heart again

  • You’re tired of feeling stuck, guarded, or small — and you’re ready to finally feel free

If any part of this feels like you — that’s not a coincidence.

It’s your signal that you’re ready. And this is the path to finally release it.

Ready to Crush What’s Been Crushing You?

This is a 30-day VIP experience:
Private 1:1 work with me — high-touch, high-impact, and built for deep transformation.

Together, we’ll shift the belief that’s been holding everything back —
So you can finally move forward clear, grounded, and fully in your power.

Your Investment: $1,497

(Appraised Value: $2,500)

Over 30 days, we’ll clear the belief that’s been quietly running the show in your life — so you can move forward with clarity, confidence, and power.

✔️ 4 private, 1:1 coaching sessions — 60 minutes each, with time reserved for wrap-up if needed.
✔️ Personalized session notes — I write these after each session so you have a clear, actionable record of your breakthroughs and next steps. (This means each call is about 2 hours of my dedicated time, including prep and follow-up.)
✔️ 7-day guided meditation series — designed to calm your nervous system and reinforce your shifts.
✔️ Light-touch access to me between sessions — so you’re never left feeling stuck.

🎁 Bonus: One 15-minute “Integration Call” within 2 weeks of your last session — to make sure the changes stick and you’re feeling confident moving forward.

Clients tell me this work has created more lasting change in one month than years of therapy.

If you’re ready to finally release what’s been holding you back for years, the investment is $1,497.

It’s worth every penny — and most people wait years to feel this free.

Why wait any longer?
👉 Grab your spot below — let’s crush it.

💬 What Clients Say After The Crush It Method…

"After just one session, I let go of beliefs I’d been carrying since 1995 — and things opened up in a huge way. I showed up more boldly than ever… and within a week, I had over $5 million in listings under contract. This work is next-level."

—Client reflection

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"I really needed this reset I feel like I let go of so much fear and feel like myself again."

—Client reflection

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"I moved back to my hometown, I’m with my old friends again, and it feels so good. I never would’ve been able to move on without your help.”

Client, 3 weeks after our session

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“This process was incredible. I let go of misconceptions I’d carried for over 40 years. I feel lighter, kinder, softer… like I released a layer of yuck I didn’t even realize was there. My heart is full. My life is better. I’m grateful. Thank you, thank you, thank you.”

—Client reflection

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“Oh my gosh, I can’t thank you enough for what you did for me this evening. You are amazing.”

—Client message, post-session

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"Wow, I didn't realize that which I thought made me weak actually made me strong. I have a new self-confidence. You helped me in a way no therapist was able to. Thank you."

—Client message, post-session

Secure your spot and let’s crush what’s been crushing you.
After payment you will schedule your first session.

One time Investment lifetime impact

$1,497

Limited spots — once they’re gone, they’re gone.

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Got questions? I’ve got you.

Here’s everything clients usually ask before they book…

What if I’ve already done years of therapy or coaching—will this still work for me?

Yes. The Crush It Method isn't about more “processing.” It's about pinpointing and permanently shifting the belief that’s been running the show. Even seasoned clients are surprised by how deep—and fast—this goes.

What if I’ve never done any kind of coaching or therapy?

That’s totally fine. You don’t need to have done any personal development work to benefit from this. The Crush It Method is simple, guided, and doesn’t require you to have any previous experience. All you need is a little openness. I’ll walk you through every step.

What if I don’t know what my belief is?

Perfect. That’s exactly what we uncover together. You don’t need to come in with answers—just a willingness to explore. I’ll guide you there.

What if this doesn’t work for me?

Sometimes your subconscious will resist the shift at first—that’s totally normal. If that happens, I’ll pivot. I have other tools that can either lead you back into the process or open up a different path entirely. As long as you’re open and willing, I’ll help you get there.

What kind of results will I feel—and when?

Most people experience a major “aha” in the first session. By the second, the emotional shift usually lands in the body. And by the third, we’re going deeper—reinforcing the shift and cleaning up the language and beliefs that could pull you backward. This final session often locks it in and makes the change stick.

What if I’m not shifting as quickly as I hoped?

That doesn’t mean it’s not working—it just means you may need a bit more space. Sometimes we have to clear a few things before we can go deeper. I’ve studied spiritual transformation for decades and I coach with strong intuition. I know where to take you, I can feel what’s in your way, and I’m not afraid to call it out. If you’re open and willing, I’ll get you there.

What if my pain is about something that happened to my child? Will this still help?

Whether it happened to you or someone you love, this process can help. If you're carrying guilt, helplessness, or heartbreak, we can gently get to the core—without retraumatizing you. And if the story feels too big to talk about, that’s okay too. You’ll be met with compassion, not pressure.

What if I don’t want to talk about the whole story?

You don’t have to. This isn’t about rehashing everything. We work with what’s showing up now. The story is never required for the shift to happen.

How do I know this will actually work for me?

If you’re honest, open, and willing—you’ll walk away with a shift. This method has helped people who’ve been stuck for decades. It’s not magic, but it is powerful.

Is this private? Will you share what comes up?

Everything you share is confidential. I’ve gone deep with people in all kinds of pain—grief, betrayal, trauma, regret—even things they’ve never said out loud. There’s nothing you can say that will shock me, and nothing I can’t hold with you. You’re safe here.

Is this similar to Byron Katie's The Work?

I do use the four core questions from Byron Katie’s The Work — because they’re powerful, and they work.

But the Crush It Method is a different experience.

The 4 questions are part of the process, but what I guide clients through goes beyond that — integrating other tools, perspectives, and a flexible approach that’s tailored to what each person actually needs.

It’s a guided, belief-shifting experience built from years of working with people who are ready to stop carrying old stories — and finally move forward.

What if I want to keep working with you after the 4 sessions?

Some clients have more shifts they want to make—whether it’s in dating, relationships, career, or breaking old patterns. If that’s you, we’ll build a 1:1 coaching package that keeps you moving toward the life—and relationships—you actually want.

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Is there a money-back guarantee?

No, and here’s why: This isn’t a one-size-fits-all course. It’s private, 1:1 coaching — customized, personal, and transformational. That means it requires your full presence, your commitment, and your trust. I’m committed to delivering real results — and if something’s not working, I’ll always adapt the approach to make sure you walk away with what you came for. This is deep work. If you're in, I’m all in with you.

💬 Still Have Questions? Let’s Talk.

If this feels like it could be right — but you still have questions, let’s talk.

This work changes lives, and I want you to feel sure before we begin.

This is deep, personal work — and I want you to feel confident stepping in.

You’re welcome to:

📩 Email me directly: [email protected]

💬 Message me on Instagram: @danavstone

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